Names are pretty important considering
it is something that identifies us as an individual for our entire
lives. Most people are given a name by their parents and will go by
this name or a nickname unless they decide to have it legally
changed later on in life.
With all the possibilities of unique
names out there, many people still end up with common names and often
the exact same name as other people. So how does this happen?
There are many lists out there with the
most popular baby names for each year. It is possible people search
for the popular names and then pick a name out of the most popular
names. Also it may be out of tradition such as naming a child after a
relative, historical figure, or celebrity.
Personally, I think people should try
to give their children more unique name instead of the most common
names that have already been done. It can be odd to come across
someone with the same name as you. It is a coincidence, but strange
because we associate our name with who we are and so it is odd when
you find someone else who is going by the same name.
A unique name helps you stand out from
the crowd. In a list of names, the common names get overlooked but
when there is an interesting name you have never seen before, it
stands out and gets more attention. This can have an effect on many
things from job applications to general introductions and meeting
people.
With the internet these days and the
ability to search by name, a common name is almost impossible to
narrow down in a search unless it is someone famous. A unique name
can be found much more easily with a search. This could be a positive
or a negative depending on how you look at it, but I think having the
unique name has the advantage.
In my case, I have a first and last
name that falls somewhere in the middle, not too common, but common
enough that there are others with the same name. Given the choice of
one way or the other, I would prefer a more unique name that no one
else has.
Do you have a common name or a unique
name? What are your thoughts when it comes to picking out a name for
a child?