Names are very important because they
are what we will be referred to as for our entire life, assuming we
do not get a legal name change. A name gives you identity and can
shape who you are. It can affect what people think of you and what
opportunities you are given. It can affect one's self esteem and can
ultimately effect who they turn out to be. Because of these things,
it is important to choose a good name when having a baby.
In my opinion, one of the most
important things to consider when picking a name is originality. A
name should be unique and original so the child has a sense of
personal identity that is not the same as anyone else. It can be
strange when you run into someone with the same first name as you,
let alone same first and last name. It makes you think, “How can
they have that name? That's my name.”
Giving a child a common name may be
safe, but it is sure to make them blend into the crowd. In a list of
names, a common name will be glazed over while a unique name will be
focused on. Common names are easy to forget while an original name
may help people remember who you are.
Another thing to consider when choosing
a name is how the name will work not only as a baby, but as child as
well as an adult. A lot of names sound cute for a baby, but may sound
a bit immature for an adult. Same with names that sound distinguished
and professional for an adult, but may not work as well for a teen.
Try to find a name that will work well through all ages of life.
When choosing a name, it is also a good
idea to pick something that is easy to read, say, and spell. It can
be annoying if you have a name that no one can pronounce or one that
people are always saying incorrectly. Names should be easy to read so
most people will not be confused on what the name is and how it is
pronounced.
Another thing that may be more obvious
is to consider how well the name works in relation to the last name.
There are many great first names out there, but they do not always go
well with the last name. Try to find one that has a good ring to it
and flows easily while saying the full name. Middle names can be
added as well, but first and last names will be used most often so
make sure they work well together.
It is also wise to make sure the name
you choose is unlikely to be made fun of. As kids grow up, they are
often teased about their name. Make sure the name you choose does not
rhyme with any objectionable words. Also make sure the name is not
one that might be considered too nerdy or old fashioned.
For inspiration on ideas, think about
some of your favorite characters or celebrities from tv, movies,
books etc. It can give you some ideas for names you might have liked
in the past. You may want to name a child after someone you really
admire. This can work well but keep in mind to try to make sure the
name is still original and not too common.
For more tips on coming up with a
unique name, I recommend avoiding the “top baby names” lists
because these are the names everyone is picking. Look for more
obscure names or everyday words that might not have been considered
names in the past, but can actually work as a name.
Choosing a name is a big decision so do
not rush into it. Something you like today may not sound as good 9
months from now, so make sure to take your time and come up with the
best name. Hope this helps and feel free to leave a comment below
if you have any tips or advice on choosing a name for a baby.
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