After having tried some of the online
dating sites over the years, I figured I would give one of the dating
apps a try. After doing some research I decided to try out Bumble.
One of the unique features of Bumble is that women have to make the
first move by sending a message if they are interested. So how did
it work out and how does it compare to other dating sites?
I tried it for a couple weeks and I
should note, I am male so I was only able to “like” profiles but
not send messages. Signing up was fairly simple. It asks you to
upload some pictures, answer some questions and fill out a little bit
about yourself.
One thing I noticed was it does not
really let you write much about yourself. In the “About Me”
section, I was literally only able to write 3 sentences before it cut
off with a character limit. The questions it gives are not the best.
For example, one that seems to show up a lot in the profiles was “Do
you like the beach or the mountains?” This does not really tell you
much about the person.
The app lets you set a couple filters
for free to help narrow down your search. You have to pay if you want
to add more filters. You can also pay to get premium features such as
a boost for more attention, and the ability to see who has liked you
even if you have not liked them.
Once you have your profile and settings
filled out you begin looking through profiles one by one. I never
tried Tinder but I'm familiar with the swipe right and swipe left
feature which is how it works in Bumble to either like or dislike a
profile.
Since Bumble doesn't really let you add
much information about yourself and the questions are pretty bland,
it pretty much just comes down to a pictures app. Because of this, I
can see most people just looking quickly at the pictures and swiping
right or left without even reading anything in the profile. This
works if you are an attractive person, but for most people on the
app, this will not be beneficial.
I tended to be selective when going
through the profiles and only swiping right if I really had interest
and saw potential after having looked through the whole profile. My
filters were also strong enough that I was able to go through all
potential profiles within a few days. Each day new ones show up
though.
After a couple weeks of using the app,
it resulted in 0 matches. So this means none of the profiles I liked,
liked back. I guess I am not too surprised by it, but it would have
been nice to actually get a match. I will probably delete the app
soon.
For me, I am more interested in dating
sites that allow people to really show who they are. For example on
OKCupid there is a lot more opportunity to write about yourself and
answer questions to see how you match up with other people.
I see Bumble as more of a pictures
dating app that will work for people who are very photogenic. Because
of this, I do not see it working out too well for most people. Overall
if the swipe right, swipe left dating app style appeals to you, it
might be worth a try, but if you are looking for something more
meaningful, there are better options out there.
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